The ladies are therefore literally invited to do their shopping, to visit profiles of men on the sole basis of their physical appearance or specific characteristics (for example: blondes, vegetarians, artists, cooks, hippies, etc. .). Gentlemen, on the other hand, are relegated to the state of consumer goods and must wait for a hypothetical client. The whole site is built on this principle and sports this tone in the second degree. Even the nature of the profiles differs between men and women! Women have a “sex” category where they can enter their sexual practices, their favorite erotic accessories or even the frequency of their intercourse. While men have an “accessories” category where they can enter their audiovisual equipment, the size of their bed or the equipment of their bathroom! I who always find that we never push concepts and fantasies far enough, I am truly served!
Basically, AdopteUnMec is based on a very specific principle: by default, men cannot contact any woman! They must wait for a registrant to authorize them either by adding them to their “basket” or by sending them an email. The only way for a man to show up is to visit a profile (and therefore appear in the list of recent visitors to these ladies), or to send them a “charm”, equivalent to a “flash” on Meetic. But hang in there: the “charms” are limited: five a day! No need to hope to abuse it to overcome the limitations of the concept, it will have to be used sparingly!
The ingenious concept of AdoptUnMec is therefore to prevent women from being unnecessarily crushed by emails and chat requests and that a few male serial-mailers-copiers-glueers do not spoil the chances of more respectful singles. their contacts. On the one hand women are no longer disgusted by dozens of unwanted solicitations, on the other hand men are no longer upset and discouraged at not getting an answer when they go to the trouble of sending a personalized email. Now, when a registrant receives an authorization or an “add to basket”, a woman has fallen for him enough to grant him at least a few exchanges. Save time and energy for everyone!
The downside of the system is that men have to be prepared for the possibility of staying logged in to the site for hours and hours without ever receiving a visit (let alone authorization!) And without being able to do so. something other than visiting profiles and drooling over photos. And during peak hours, from 5 p.m. to midnight, there is a waiting period for men, as in an SNCF agency: in theory 40 minutes systematically announced, but in fact this can reach several hours or even never to achieve. The principle is to impose compliance with a 50% male / female quota. Once again, in reality, I never had the impression that once I logged in, this was really the case … You should also know that we find – as elsewhere of course – fake profiles circulating. They can be spotted by the fact that they abuse additions to the cart (their number appearing on the profiles), that they have a slightly too developed sexual profile or photos that are a little too enticing.